Sunday, August 25, 2013

Broken


Tomorrow I’m going to see a doctor. Those close to me know that I have been experiencing some joint and muscle pain pretty much all over my body for a good while now. I had to work through some things regarding insurance to get to a doctor, so I’ve been waiting a good while to begin getting some answers. In the meantime, I have had some relief from someone who has done Feldenkrais with me and have gotten a great deal of encouragement from a friend who is a massage therapist.

I honestly have no idea what the problem is. I started out thinking, maybe assuming, it was one thing, based on my experience with it as a medical researcher and as the sibling of someone who has it. The observant eyes of people who work every day with folks who have this kind of pain have helped me come down from my mountain of assuredness about what the problem is. I’m both encouraged by that and a bit more frightened. Encouraged, because what’s wrong may be completely treatable and I won’t have to take nasty drugs for the rest of my life and still watch my body slowly lock up and deteriorate over time.  Frightened, because now I’m back to uncertainty and as long as the cause is uncertain, there’s the possibility it could be even worse than what I’ve assumed it was.

Here’s the bottom line, though. Over the past few months, I’ve progressively lost strength. I’ve also lost about 25 pounds. There are days when I can barely move at all when I get up in the mornings. Other days,  I move just fine. Every single day, though, carries with it a degree of pain in my neck, shoulders, hands, wrists, knees, and ankles. I am, to put it succinctly, worn out from dealing with it and beyond ready for answers.

If you are the praying sort, I would welcome your thoughts and prayers over the next few days/weeks as I work with my doctor to sort through the potential causes for the pain, stiffness, and loss of strength. To say that I am frightened a little may seem to some as a lack of faith. It isn’t to me. I’m scared and I’m pretty sure God gets that.

8 comments:

Work in Progress said...

Will definitely keep you in my prayers, Linda.

Jules said...

Storming the gates on your behalf. May you find peace and wholeness.

J said...

You are in my heart. Please keep us posted and let us know if there is anything we can do to help. Jdub

nanc said...

Linda,

Will definitely keep you in my prayers. Will also try to send some reiki your way. Take care, friend, glad you are getting to see the doctor soon.

Richard Ward said...

Thanks for letting us in on this. Oh yes, that feeling of fear? Uncertainty. If God knows anything God knows about that. It was good to see you at the market on Saturday. You look so happy! And proud! Blessings on you and Lisa and on what you do. And who are are.

Jan Calloway-Baxter said...

Linda,
Thank you for sharing this. I will remember you at my altar and ask the Goddess to send you strength and answers. I know how utterly debilitating pain can be. I hope you get quick and acceptable answers to your mystery. And, of course, anything I can do, just tell me and it's done.
jan

Mady Fraser said...

In so many ways I can empathize. Part of the fear is for an amorphus diagnosis of 'we just don't know,' which we learn to live with. . . . moving on the days we can, resting on the days we can't.

Blessings and tears and prayers,
Mady

Unknown said...

Hoping that a virtual hug will help :)